I asked my mom this summer if it was okay, she said its not wrong to do so. So she said i can do it because she knows it will not be shown. Obviously i wont discuss with my father because that is sharm of me, and not okay to discuss this with my Pashtun/Afghan father. Just personal 'womenly' things like that shouldnt be discussed with my father, its weird and embarrassing, and I know he wont like hearing about it. So if my mom says yes, i take and trust her word there