Do you remember the story of Emmit Till (a young black boy in the South who was killed by the KKK). When I heard that, I could not sleep for days. I was so angry. I felt so sad. I never thought these things could happen. I remember seeing my dad shake with anger when we were watching this on TV. I just wish everything was good, but it is not. Thanks again for the post. I am not insensitive to womens' pain, im just fixated on protecting their honor at all costs, and I can not regret being like that. its our way.