Mayana, dont let that thread get to you. You and I are both living in California, we have lived here for a long time, but we both have enough respect for ourselves to not 'mess around.' It is a very false and unjust generalization people put on females in the West that we are all a bunch of 's***s' if i must say.

Its such a hypocrisy world, and the stupid thing is, our own people are majority to blame for the reason.

Just dont let it get to you, i know, Allah (SWT) knows your intentions, you are a good girl and i know you will keep your head high every step of the way. It is our duty now to prove those people that we are not what they think we are. Actually, no, never mind, no need to prove to them. Either you take it with a grain of salt, or kindly here is the finger.