Salaamoona!

the BEST quality a man can have is to KNOW how to iron his own clothes, and learn how to iron everyone elses.

Your welcome in advance.

Honesty and sincerity:)

The size of his gun that he is holding.

The best quality a man can have is to be able to make good delicious food without the need to rely on others.

is to gain knowledge and use it in good ways.

Intelligence and respect

There are many:

Devout Muslim is #1
Patience is important in my situation
Honesty
Humour

Modesty, sincerity, self-respected.... that sorta stuff. But that depends on what I want a man for. If I were a girl, I'd want a cool-headed and understanding husband but if I want to hire a security guard, I wouldn't want him to be understanding at all - in fact, that quality would be irrelevant to me. So the question's too vague.

As far as my friends are concerned, those that get along with me best are people who don't use foul language and people who talk about decent stuff. So I suppose civility is a good quality to have.

Someone who understands and can be my bestfriend along with being trustworthy.

Your wait is over....

height

^ if i had to choose one thing..

The best quality a man should have is respect, the basis of many other things.

Nice thread =)

Thanks God, I have all the qualities stated in this thread ... height, good looks, respetful to others, intelligent, honest, can iron clothes, can cook, ... etc. etc....am not kidding.

the best quality a man can posses is to respect and trust his woman.

:)

You must be one amazing man.

yes, chino, all the good qualities combined in just one man...don't you believe it?

But Chino, pardon if there is a bit of exaggeration in my claim...that is natural to creep in you know...

Thanks God, I have all the qualities stated in this thread ... height, good looks, respetful to others, intelligent, honest, can iron clothes, can cook, ... etc. etc....am not kidding.

Clearly, you have confidence too ... :stupido:

the best quality a man can have is to be able to make good delicious food without the need to rely on others.
like my dad

trust
respect
intelligence
honesty
good looks

good points

Kind
helpful
respectful
handsome
big hearted (not kanjos), not stingy
dont compliant about food llol

and much more
then that wouldnt be a man it would be more like angel lol

like my dad

Lolll my dad too!

He's trying to push this upon me now but i'm just too darn lazy!

Trust
Respect
Intelligence
Honesty
Good looks

height



only height?

but for me its intelligence, common sense, Islam , Handsome and funny.
EXACTLY!!!!


but in addition to this for me.....someone who can watch and play basketball with me :whistling:

Wow you good at basketball?

I love basketball wish there people here I could play that with..everyones into footy and cricket! Flippin brits:mad4:

Wow you good at basketball?

I love basketball wish there people here I could play that with..everyones into footy and cricket! Flippin brits:mad4:

ahhhhhhaaaa yes...i have played basketball forever! we gotta play one on one......waittttttt thats not fair...you are hella tall. I am short :pullinghair: You will probably block all my shots, take all the rebounds!

Basketball is for black people..Not being Racist.

Mostly played by women

ahhhhhhaaaa yes...i have played basketball forever! we gotta play one on one......waittttttt thats not fair...you are hella tall. I am short :pullinghair: You will probably block all my shots, take all the rebounds!

LOLLLLLLLL..My shot making accuracy is toooo dangerous..long range missiles=D

I won't go into a long list.. someone who listens, (and I don't mean in the sense of obeying commands =P).

Unfortunately it's a rare quality of men.

The size of his gun that he is holding.

Hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaa!

I won't go into a long list.. someone who listens, (and I don't mean in the sense of obeying commands =P).

LOLL very good point there..my mama pretty much sussed this out after THIRTEEN years of marriage..he says women don't want us to fix the problems or find a solution everytime we just have to be there as a shoulder to cry on:tongue:

LOLLLLLLLL..My shot making accuracy is toooo dangerous..long range missiles=D

I will still play you :runaround:

Bring it onn!!!

Bring it onn!!!

I already did son!

Don't you call me son!

Don't you call me son!

:hmm: :running:

The best quality a man -- or any human, really -- can have is respect.

Nothing else the man or anyone else has is worth anything if he/she has no respect.

what would happen if u marry at the end of the day with some1 who have 1 quality or none of the above? How will adjust and act? Coz im sure there isnt a perfect person yet and in afghans lol im not disrespecting afghans girls n boys

She would have to adapt to synthetic happiness.

gd answer khan bt how wud u do dat?

Most arranged couples don't get what they expect but they learn to adapt and love each other..

Sheenkay,
This is the topic, http://www.pashtunforums.com/showthread.php?t=1737

Watch the video posted by Kandahary.

what would happen if u marry at the end of the day with some1 who have 1 quality or none of the above? How will adjust and act? Coz im sure there isnt a perfect person yet and in afghans lol im not disrespecting afghans girls n boys

We humans are much stronger than we think we are. We have the ability to adapt to most, if not all, situations and environments, even if we are afraid of letting ourselves be placed in such situations because we think we won't survive.

But to answer your questions, I believe it would depend on the personality of both individuals in the marriage. Some of us can handle any type of people; others of us can't, or maybe for just a short while. It would also depend on which qualities the partner end up having and which ones lacking.

Also, I think that if people are given a chance to talk to their potential partners before marriage is settled/arranged, they will be able to better decide if marrying someone who is missing certain qualities that one dreamt of initially is worth it or not. If not, then (if the family/society) permits, the individuals may not be bound to the proposal; otherwise, I'm more than sure they'll figure out a way to settle their extreme differences or to live with their disappointments.

manana, all for thuoghtful answers am sorry coz i changed the topic

manana, all for thuoghtful answers am sorry coz i changed the topic

Na, I think it's still relevant to the topic. Makes one think, too, you know. A "What if life doens't work out the way you want it to" type of question is always a thoughtful one.

these qualities comes naturaly but i think a pure and man or woman is some1 who is pure of kabeera sins
Such as drinking, being with na marham, stealing, and other harm things if they pure of these thinks that is all

BAAAAAAAAAAAAH what a fail :( You guys missed the most important point.

It is about Ironing, and the importance of a man knowing how to Iron.


I guess everything else off tangent... could be useful/ important points.

hehe
or you could just get wrinkle free clothing! :P
I also have a dryer than does all that work - everything is wrinkle free!

a honest man can become dishonest and a respectful one disrespectful all of a sudden...now a short dude can never be stretched in to a tall one..vice versa.
i m kidding guys, love has nothing to do with anything.

Ghairat? =S

Trustworthy. Should respect women. And should be a good listener. A person with whom i can talk. About almost everything and i know that that he would listen without getting bored. The most important thing a person whom i would love to age with.:)

I can trust anyone specially men LOL

BAAAAAAAAAAAAH what a fail :( You guys missed the most important point.

It is about Ironing, and the importance of a man knowing how to Iron.


I guess everything else off tangent... could be useful/ important points.

LOL! :hug1"

further to qualities mention in sunnah,

a man must have quality of nar-yantub, otherwise nothing nar about him
zaRor and shukulai
a man must say what he means and mean what he says
keep out of women's discussions

ironing for the women or the men in the laundry shop.

Truthful, having good company outside house, straightforward and not a politician in his relationships, respectful to others, ghairatmand, not a secular minded and the one who have patience and gratefulness in any type of situation. hmmm I admit I have very little patience in some situations especially when I like something I want to get it without any delay no matter what I have to spend on it, even if it is of no worth. may Allah give me patience.

Good looks, respect, who understand others' likes and dislikes, ghairati

ghirati, respectful, good looking, smart, and all above posts lol ^

thanks

Charisma

money money money.... Millions of pounds always circulating in girls' mind.

Nadal Vs Steffi Graf! Hilarious! - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jlw18xzTKCw&feature=related)

Man are stronger, more charisma, funnier, better in sports and many more.

he will not let you pay for the food but if you threaten to stick your finger in your mouth and throw it up, he will hold the door open for you and lead you to the parking lot to show him how that works. i don't know what that is called..

he will not let you pay for the food but if you threaten to stick your finger in your mouth and throw it up, he will hold the door open for you and lead you to the parking lot to show him how that works. i don't know what that is called..

That's called an eating disorder.

Wow you good at basketball?

I love basketball wish there people here I could play that with..everyones into footy and cricket! Flippin brits:mad4:

Bring it on Bro

BAAAAAAAAAAAAH what a fail :( You guys missed the most important point.

It is about Ironing, and the importance of a man knowing how to Iron.


I guess everything else off tangent... could be useful/ important points.

i dont mind ironing. i'd rather he know how to do another chore that i dont like doing... like washing dishes LOL

Well the most important quality would be the ability to control your anger and to use it as your strength rather than your weakness, another one will be the art of right decision making during your bad times.

eww i hate doing dishes too
:Sick::Sick::Sick:
there is not just one thing a man needs to know
its about balancing ur life work, home and family and staying sane in the process:hmm: