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ډګروال · 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by akramzai

we should follow the example of the japanese if ever we get an independent state called pashtunistan (inshallah). In japan 98.5% of the people are japanese, it is very unlikely even for a rich business man to get a japanese nationally. And look at their state, almost no unemployment, only recently did it rise from 2.7%-4.3%. They are one of the most advanced countries and keep improving even though they were bombed by the americans and got independence from britain at the same time as afghanistan. The japanese conserve their culture very much and appreciate other cultures at the same time.
As i said before, having pride in your heritage is not haram nor does it mean you think you're superior, it just means that you appreciate the unique culture given to us by god.

خبری غیر اسلامې کی او انشالله هم په کښی وایی.
مږ خو کردانو په شانتی نه یو چی ځان له ملک چوړ کړو او هغه هم یو فاشستې ملک چه د یو
قوم په نوم وې.
زمږ وطن افغانستان او دا یو وطن د مسلمان دی.

Akramzai · 08-12-2012, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by بریدمل

خبری غیر اسلامې کی او انشالله هم په کښی وایی.
مږ خو کردانو په شانتی نه یو چی ځان له ملک چوړ کړو او هغه هم یو فاشستې ملک چه د یو
قوم په نوم وې.
زمږ وطن افغانستا او دا یو وطن د مسلمان دی.

I am sorry I can't read Arabic properly and am learning it atm, also my Pashto isn't 100% and that's why I'm on this forum in the first place to learn from you guys. Maybe you could reply in English or Pashto in English alphabet.

Toramana · 08-12-2012, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Akramzai

I am sorry I can't read Arabic properly and am learning it atm, also my Pashto isn't 100% and that's why I'm on this forum in the first place to learn from you guys. Maybe you could reply in English or Pashto in English alphabet.

Brother Akramzai, you are dealing with someone from the modern Khariji heretic (bidathi) sect who consider those that don't succumb to fanaticism as "kafiran".

ډګروال · 08-12-2012, 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Toramana

Brother Akramzai, you are dealing with someone from the modern Khariji heretic (bidathi) sect who consider those that don't succumb to fanaticism as "kafiran".

ښه نو ته اوس کاپر نه یی

خپله فرهت تاج مور دی اینډرسن ته واده کلی ده او مږ ته خبری کی

ډګروال · 08-12-2012, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Akramzai

I am sorry I can't read Arabic properly and am learning it atm, also my Pashto isn't 100% and that's why I'm on this forum in the first place to learn from you guys. Maybe you could reply in English or Pashto in English alphabet.

that was pashto not arabic.

Toramana · 02:31 PM

Akramzai, ignore this person---He is the patient of chronic fanaticism with infectious rabies...da kharijai bidaathi dai

Pisho · 08-12-2012, 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Akramzai

We should follow the example of the Japanese if ever we get an independent state called Pashtunistan (inshallah). In Japan 98.5% of the people are Japanese, it is very unlikely even for a rich business man to get a Japanese nationally. And look at their state, almost no unemployment, only recently did it rise from 2.7%-4.3%. They are one of the most advanced countries and keep improving even though they were bombed by the Americans and got independence from Britain at the same time as Afghanistan. The Japanese conserve their culture very much and appreciate other cultures at the same time.
As i said before, having pride in your heritage is not haram nor does it mean you think you're superior, it just means that you appreciate the unique culture given to us by God.

Thank u and some1 called me racist yesterday...
Atleast there are some ppl here in this forum that are not completely westernized... I totally agree with u...
I told one person if they would be ok with a black guy ie african american marrying their daughter and they said i was a racist b.... I say u can call me whatever u want at least im not like them alhamdullilah... Pashtun born and pashtun die.. Not confused kafir that pretends to be muslim

Khostai · 08-12-2012, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Pisho

Thank u and some1 called me racist yesterday...
Atleast there are some ppl here in this forum that are not completely westernized... I totally agree with u...
I told one person if they would be ok with a black guy ie african american marrying their daughter and they said i was a racist b.... I say u can call me whatever u want at least im not like them alhamdullilah... Pashtun born and pashtun die.. Not confused kafir that pretends to be muslim

but you say you are a muslim, so if a black african muslim wants to marry your doughter you will refuse becuase you don't like black peopel, thats haram becuase you are being racist, and thats against Islam.
So who is so called kafir that pretends to be a muslim?, only you.

Pisho · 08-12-2012, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Khostai

but you say you are a muslim, so if a black african muslim wants to marry your doughter you will refuse becuase you don't like black peopel, thats haram becuase you are being racist, and thats against Islam.
So who is so called kafir that pretends to be a muslim?, only you.

Look at the post and hem comment i said african american i never said a muslim african..

Even if its a muslim african i still could not accept it.. Because i was thought that pashtuns must marry pashtuns so i wanna keep it that way.. If its a pashtun that lived in africa and is dark as the deepest black color i wouldnt mind.. As it was said before i was a pashtun first then everything else
Thats my opinion and the black guy i meant was christian i even said a black american who is christian and they said they have no problem check in the sikh vs punjabi matriage thread then make a comment

abayd · 08-13-2012, 12:58 AM

look, all tribal people care about their lineage. It's what makes them a tribe. It's not racism or hatred, just a love for upholding the values of honour and chivalry in the particular way each kind of people has maintained for centuries or millennia.
If they marry their daughter to someone who doesn't have the same collective experience and upbringing, then it all ends there and doesn't continue to the next generation.
There's nothing wrong if someone chooses to accept someone from outside either, no shame in that as long as he's Muslim, but this attitude of trying to force people to accept or look down on those who want to continue their legacy I don't agree with.
I say this and I'm not even from your tribes, but I understand and respect it.

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