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Default 09-05-2012, 12:25 AM

You sound like you're mentally challenged, did you take remedial classes in school? Maybe that's why you're frustrated and gender confused when I railed into Pakistan2010. No one asked you to get involved, Clearly you did so because you feel inferior and trying to compensate for it

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Default 09-05-2012, 12:34 AM

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You sound like you're mentally challenged, did you take remedial classes in school? Maybe that's why you're frustrated and gender confused when I railed into Pakistan2010. No one asked you to get involved, Clearly you did so because you feel inferior and trying to compensate for it
stop acting lika a ***** and get a life i dont care for afg2010 nor do i care for you.. but you are a total waste of time and space go kill your self somewhere...
im not gender confused... you on the other hand think that you are all that... reality check NO UR NOT.. the reason i even said anything was,,,because ur low self-esteem ass needs to talk bad about others for you to feel better...
you know what its like talking to a wall... just never mind... im not even gonna waste my time with u...
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Default 09-05-2012, 12:36 AM

then why are you even involved? Just shut up already and play with your dolls or something. Stop trying to copy the stuff I say, it doesn't make you seem insightful, it just shows how weak minded and desperate you are. Little kids should not concern themselves with these things anyways. Now shoo.
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Default 09-05-2012, 12:39 AM

Screw it, you beat me. I was almost 19 when I got engaged and 21 when I got married.
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Default 09-06-2012, 12:57 AM

14 seems kind of young lol how are you supposed to know what type of person you want to spend the rest of your life with at that young of an age in today's society....
but then again its nothing new among pashtuns. in fact some people might prefer an arranged marriage over choosing someone themselves so if thats the case then so be it.

i think some pakhtun parents get their kids engaged at a young age because they want to know that their child will have already have someone pa num bande when they're old enough to get married lol but nan saba in the west ka khpal bachi okotwalo ke warkawe o bia so kala pas ye khwakha na yi you're not going to have a good time :/
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Default 09-06-2012, 06:56 PM

Men should should get married at about between ages of 20 to 25.
I got engaged when I was like 18 and now I am 20 , Inshallah next year its Wadoo


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congrats MK
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Default 09-07-2012, 08:24 PM

All our men get engaged...by 27 to 33.

Girls 17 to..20.

I was 18 my Fiance was..28.



راته یاد مي خپل هیواد سو خپل قامونه
یو له بل سره په جنګ وه اولسونه
سره وژني به تر کله دا غلیم غلیم تربرونه
یوه ورځ به داسي راسي چي به هیر وي د وګړو


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Default 09-07-2012, 09:54 PM

Wow ^ thats a big gap.. My parents were the same..
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Default 09-07-2012, 10:10 PM

^I prefer the..Gap.

Hes mature well..established.

Patient Kind...Understands me.

Mashallah.

Gap is..good.



راته یاد مي خپل هیواد سو خپل قامونه
یو له بل سره په جنګ وه اولسونه
سره وژني به تر کله دا غلیم غلیم تربرونه
یوه ورځ به داسي راسي چي به هیر وي د وګړو


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